"Keep pulling the sweater. Excuse me? Eventually the whole thing will unravel. You mean... If you pull the thread, the whole thing will unravel?" Zoolander

Playing J.P. Prewitt in Zoolander;

David Duchovy

Have you ever meet someone and started to spend every single moment together, or at least every single free moment together? At first, yes that is normal, but after awhile, it is best to make sure you keep your own life in motion, as well as the new relationship that you are nurturing. I have found in my life, and in my friends/family's relationships, that it is best to spend some time on you.

Who?? ...It's okay if you forgot about yourself, but get grounded. Find yourself again.

You, You, You. I know it seems so easy, but it is also so easy to forget. So step back, take a moment to think about what you want to achieve. It doesn't have to be something HUGE, just something to keep your wheels spinning, and your mind & heart motivated. Yes, relationships enrich lives in ways that seem to make you feel whole... but don't fool yourself. Neither you nor your partner will be happy if you have nothing to talk about, because you do everything together.

Try it, take some time to have a guys poker night, or a girls night at the movies. Then come back to your significant other. You will be so much more excited to be in their presence and you'll most surly have some great stories to share. Space is key to having a well rounded relationship. Wether romantic or not, yes: Even when it comes to family.

Keep in mind that anyone can become a bit too much if you haven't nourished yourself. So pick a hobby or a goal and go for it. Then you will gain knowledge and have new things to talk about and to be proud of.

So like J.P Prewitt so wisely stated, "keep pulling the sweater." If you want it to all fall apart. Or make a change and see where the world takes you.

Also if you don't pull the sweater, you will still have something to wear during these cold rainy cali days.